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What a Couple of Weeks It’s Been….

28 Saturday May 2016

Posted by Heather Irwin in Seeking Life Now, Uncategorized

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Discipline, free writing, learning, lessons, trying, Writing

I haven’t had much opportunity to write recently. The past 2 weeks have been busy and intense and I have been unwell through much of it.

I have been thinking, however, about how writing is not always an easy thing. When I was younger, I could write at the drop of a hat. But, as I’ve gotten older I find that when I sit down to write, my head is swimming and it can take a lot of work to sort through the thoughts and actually form something worthwhile.

I want to be a writer and it’s easy to daydream about what that life would be like. But, my daydreams don’t usually include the struggle and the not-so-romantic logistics that have to go into making writing happen. Also, I’ve swallowed my pride and have realized that I need help. I can write, to be sure, but there is still so much that I need to learn. I’m not just going to become a famous writer tomorrow. I have to work at it.

So, even though it’s not much of anything, really, I needed to write even just a little and post it in an attempt to prove to myself that I can be committed even when it’s tough. I also did a free writing session last week, but did not post it. 

All of this just to say, sometimes writing does come extremely easy to me, but the times when it does not, I realize that I want to approach it like I do my health and find ways to keep at it even if I’m not ‘feeling it’.

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I Have ZERO discipline…

05 Saturday Mar 2016

Posted by Heather Irwin in All Posts, Seeking Life Now

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Accountability, Chocolate, Discipline, Goals, Health, Help

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Some people just seem to have discipline to spare. These are the people who get up early every morning and exercise while the rest of us are drooling on our pillows.

These people can eat their veggies, say “no” to chocolate, never have McDonald’s, exercise daily, can turn the tv off after one show and don’t down an entire family size bag of chips in one sitting.

You know the type.
 

For those of us who battle with discipline as if it were Darth Vader and we were Bambi, these people are equal parts annoying and awe-inspiring.

How do they do it? 

I have almost no disciple. Even while working on this post I got distracted and started searching online for accessories for my son’s baby doll.

I can eat nothing but toast all day and be perfectly happy doing so.

According to the following article, “self discipline means that when you have something to do, you do it, regardless of whether you like it, or not”: http://www.eruptingmind.com/how-to-develop-self-discipline/

Ok, I’m out.

I’m a short-term pleasure seeker. If it’s not giving me immediate gratification, I have a difficult time maintaining anything.

The problem with this, however, is that I do have goals that I would love to achieve and in order to do so, I’m going to need some discipline. And, for some of these goals ever to be met, I will need a whole lot of discipline.

So, how does one become more disciplined if it does not come naturally?

I certainly cannot speak from experience, but here’s an interesting article on Forbes.com about proven methods for gaining self-discipline:

http://www.forbes.com/sites/jennifercohen/2014/06/18/5-proven-methods-for-gaining-self-discipline/#79b29d221698

Is it irony that becoming disciplined seems to require discipline?

Regardless, I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that I’m going to make this year a year of the pursuit of discipline.

I’ll add thoughts and updates occasionally and you can feel free to check-in on me and keep me accountable. Goodness knows I need the help.

Now, where did I put that chocolate bar…

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